The Soft Advantages

When things go BUMP in a big way, it’s easy to get sucked into the vortex of judgment.  For example, last summer, while I was joyfully down the writing rabbit hole, I got a phone call at 5 o’clock on a Friday afternoon.  The man on the other end of the line introduced himself as a fire investigator for the town where a rental condo of mine was located.  I immediately felt a stone form…

Authenticity

Authenticity

I am authentic when I speak and do what I really want.   I want to engage with others in the same way.  So please tell me what you really think.  Tell me what you really want, now what you think I want to hear.  If you are inclined to not change to be authentic, then I simply walk away with ease and grace.  There is nothing wrong with you or with anything.  This just may…

100% Responsibility

100% Responsibility

Drive Your Car! Taking no less than one hundred percent responsibility for your life means that you let go of any “other” language in your perception of your situation.  Blame and excuses fall away and you become the sole creator of your reality.  That doesn’t mean that you do not notice what others say or do, it’s that you keep the focus on you at all times and decide what you want to do, how…